Meaning of True love

WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?

The question everyone wants to know. There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or True Love. How can you find Real Love?

 TrueTrue  is caring about the happiness of another person without wanting anything in return.

Imagine that I tell you I love you. I smile at you, speak kind words to you, and perhaps even present you with a gift of some kind. Understandably, you enjoy this, as we all would. Five minutes later, however, I storm into the room describing a mistake that has been made, and while shaking my finger in your face and scowling with rage I say, “Are you the one who did this?!”

How loved do you feel now? That great feeling disappeared the moment I entered the room, didn’t it? We’ve all experienced moments like this. For most of us, in fact, this has been a lifelong pattern. This kind of “love” is very disappointing and unfulfilling, because it vanishes when we make mistakes and when we fail to meet the expectations of those who “love” us. This kind of “love” is conditional. There’s only one kind of love, however, that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or Real Love.

It is unconditional love or True Love that we all seek, and somehow we recognize that anything other than that kind of love isn’t really love at all—it’s an imitation of the real thing. Unconditional love–Real Love–is so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves both a name and definition of its own

Why Real Love in Personal Growth?

• You’ll lose whatever addictions you have—to food, alcohol, drugs, sex, and others.
• You won’t get irritated at the many little things that bother you now.
• You’ll discover who you really are, which fewer than 1% of people realize now.
• You’ll enjoy a richly fulfilling relationship with your partner, friends and others.
• You will eliminate fear from your life. That’s a miraculous feelings

It’s also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. With Real Love, people are not disappointed or angry when we make our foolish mistakes, when we don’t do what they want, or even when we inconvenience them personally. Real Love is unconditional.

When I use the word happiness, I do not mean the brief and superficial pleasure that comes from money, sex, power, or the conditional approval we earn from others when we behave as they want. Nor do I mean the temporary feeling of satisfaction we experience in the absence of immediate conflict or disaster. Real happiness is not the feeling we get from being entertained or making people do what we want. Real happiness is a profound and lasting sense of peace and fulfillment that deeply satisfies and enlarges the soul. It doesn’t go away when circumstances are difficult. It survives and even grows during hardship and struggle. True happiness is our entire reason to live, and it can only be obtained as we find Real Love and share it with others.

Feelings and emotions are real. If you truly love a person, you will love them forever, even though they can't see you that way. That's why love is always unconditional. You love that person because you want to, not because you have that hope that someday she will love you back. If you just hope for being loved back, that's not love to begin with, it is just some business deal. You love because your feelings for her is real, deep and true.

It is definitely not because we want our love to be validated. It is not because we are stubborn to accept the reality. It is not because we haven't found a better one. It is not because we aren't able to find someone better than her. It is not because rejection has hurt us and hit us hard. It is not because we are obsessed. It is not because our ego got hurt real bad. It is just because we truly love that person. Or in my case, I still truly love her even after three years of unrequited love. May be she wouldn't realize till the end and see me only as a friend, but that's OK. I have tried my best and still be there for her.

Unrequited love is often thought of to be for people with low self esteem. But it is not. Sometimes, it is because those involved in that are true. And they are kind hearted and pure at heart. It takes a hell lot of courage to love someone unrequited and without expecting anything in return.

TO LOVE HER I DON’T NEED ANYONE, NOT EVEN HER !!

Love is all about being unconditional and selfless.

Love is unconditional, selfless, it makes you happy when you see your soulmate happy, you feel better with her/him, you truly care for the other person, their appearance doesn't matter, perfection doesn't matter, you can love them for what they are and what you are when you are with them.

Love need not always be mutual.

Love comes from within. It doesn’t need to be reciprocated. We feel happy if it is, but if not, we will still continue to love the other person for love comes from within.

To love her, I don’t need anyone, not even her!

Love is not decided by destiny, It is a choice that one makes deliberately.

Love is not a noun, it is a verb.

True Love alone is NEVER enough for a relationship to work! That is the saddest part.

True love is the ability to be, whatever you originally are, in presence of some one.

1. True love is liberating and gives immense joy as it cut shorts all the bullshit of real world.We don’t need to be perfect, don’t need to pretend about lot of things, don’t have to think and speak (because we know that the other person in interested in us as a whole and content is secondary),we know what the person will speak about, their core values and their various tipping points.
2. I refrain the use of the word ‘true’ with love. Isn’t love is what is true ? Love is a complete noun and needs no adjective. Is there any fake love as such ?
3. Love is equivalent to enlightenment because just like enlightenment, you are free from mind in love. You start to feel about your lover and thoughts disappear. Love is wonderful as it reassures, gives infinite peace of mind and in the end gives us more freedom.
4. To be in intense mutual love is a feeling unmatched for.Love is wonderful only because it is natural.Love is unplanned, raw and natural. We can plan dates, get into relationships but can never fall in love by design. Getting someone and loving someone are two different things.

Signs of love

• Unconditional
• Without any expectations
• Bare all (if you feel completely naked, both physically, emotionally,psychologically,socially,spiritually in front of any one and never think of concealing anything from them, you are in love).
• Natural (Love flows its own way. You can’t plan anything.Planned is boring).
• Self sufficient (Love is like living with yourself.It is that transparent.)
• Ego less (Ego and love are antonyms. To ‘feel good’ is love, to ‘feel proud’ is ego).
• Enlightenment : Love is merging of two egos into one entity. Loss of self is enlightenment. If two people are truly in love, both shall attain enlightenment soon or later. Enlightenment is defined as joy without purpose.Same is with love. When you are in mutual love,you are ecstatic with out reason. You do not need constant physical presence of your loved one but are with them in your thoughts forever.
• Love is musical.Whenever you fall in true mutual love, your mind becomes a radio and you are constantly playing romantic numbers.

How relevant is unconditional love today?

Love is strange,undefinable and can only be experienced. No way we can define love.